Notaboy

a.k.a. Erik: The polyamorous twenty-something gothboi who is Hafidha Gates's somewhat-steady squeeze. (Not to be confused with previous examples of the genre, who are referred to collectively as Boys.)

Based on Daphne Worth's invitations list for her wedding, his full name is. His date for the wedding was Gail Petoski.

As of October 17, 2008, Erik has his own LiveJournal at http://erik-not-erik.livejournal.com.

His last post was November 14th, 2008, and there was speculation that he is dead. He had left "cupcakes and a spinach calzone" at the security desk for Hafidha at 12:30PM on November 17; two and a half hours later, Hafidha posted that she had to "go to the hospital now." 

It turns out that he was hit by a car "in a crosswalk in the middle of the afternoon" (the driver fled the scene). Hafidha met Erik's parents, Frederich and Caroline Holt, for the first time at Erik's funeral.